学会自己开导自己

其实生活要想轻松，就要学会自己开导自己。把自己劝明白了，人也就自在了。

In fact, if you want to make life easy, you must learn to enlighten yourself. If you persuade yourself to understand, people will be free.

爱生气的人，时常都有看不顺眼的事，有生不完的气。但是气来气去，最后只有一个结果，那就是明明做错事的是别人，为此买单的却是自己。

Angry people often have unpleasant things and endless anger. However, there is only one result in the end, that is, it is others who have done wrong, and it is themselves who pay for it.

遇到他人犯错的时候，可以适当批评，但也不必以偏概全，更不必为此而影响自己的心情。

When others make mistakes, you can criticize appropriately, but you don't have to generalize, let alone affect your mood.

与其总是揪着别人的缺点，不如多去欣赏别人的优点。这样，能及早看开想通，也能让眼睛看到更多更美的风景。

It's better to appreciate the advantages of others than to always grasp the shortcomings of others. In this way, we can see and think as soon as possible, and let our eyes see more and more beautiful scenery.