放下他人，才能解脱自己

红尘浮世梦悠悠，从你爱上一个人的那刻起，就注定了患得患失。情到深处，所以一再改变，迷失自己；因为在意，所以周而复始，苦苦追寻。

The dream of the world of mortals is long. From the moment you fall in love with someone, you are doomed to worry about gain and loss. Love goes deep, so change again and again and lose yourself; Because of care, so cycle after cycle, hard pursuit.

可一路心殇之后，渐渐明白，真正的爱情从来就不需要刻意寻找。特别是当一个人故意冷落你、远离你的时候，再多的伤心与纠缠也无济于事，只会苦了自己，笑了他人。

But after the heartache all the way, I gradually understand that the real love never needs to be found deliberately. Especially when a person deliberately ignores you and stays away from you, no amount of sadness and entanglement will help. They will only hurt themselves and laugh at others.

当求而不得时，原本平静的内心，就会被搅拌得翻涌奔腾，久久不得安宁。

When you ask but can't, your originally calm heart will be stirred and agitated, and there will be no peace for a long time.

其实，天地悠悠，过客匆匆，本就没有“永恒”一说。是你的，不会走；该走的，不会留。与其耿耿于怀，苦苦纠缠，不如在事情结束的那一刻，让自己释怀。

In fact, the world is long and the passers-by is in a hurry. There is no saying of "eternity". It's yours and won't go; It's time to go. I won't stay. It's better to let go of your feelings at the moment when things are over than to dwell on them.

如果总是纠结徘徊，又怎能看到远处的风景？如果总是活在过去，又怎能获得崭新的生活？如果总是不舍放手，又怎能获得内心的安宁？余生不长，只有放下他人的错，才能解脱自己的心。

If you always linger, how can you see the scenery in the distance? If you always live in the past, how can you get a new life? If you always don't let go, how can you get inner peace? The rest of life is not long. Only by letting go of others' mistakes can you free your heart.