不属于自己的，等也等不到

不是自己的，不必强求，交往中有很多人，不是自己尽心就可以了，总有些人我们挽留不下，有些心也争取不到，俗话说，强扭的瓜不甜，属于自己的，不用求不用争，不属于自己的，等也等不到。

There are many people in our contacts who don't work hard. There are always some people we can't hold on to, and some people can't get it. As the saying goes, twisting a melon is not sweet. We don't need to fight for what belongs to us, and we can't wait for what doesn't belong to us.

无论是对人还是对事，一切都只求顺其自然就好了。

Whether it's for people or things, just let nature take its course.

当你的心不再累了，你才会不由自主地快乐起来，目光所及，全是你的世界。我们人活一生，求的不就是一份坦然随心吗。

When your heart is no longer tired, you will be involuntarily happy. All you can see is your world. We live a lifetime, and what we want is a calm heart.

对生命来说，无论是得到还是失去，都不要拘泥在过去。

For life, whether it is gain or loss, don't stick to the past.

对于感情来说，无论是离别还是留下，缘分都无法强求。

For feelings, no matter whether they are leaving or staying, fate cannot be forced.